THE
PORTER FAMILY
HOUSEPARTY
The Beginning
When I tell people about the Porter Family Houseparty get- together, they first ask “what’s a Houseparty?”. They are awed that a family with 200+ can arrange to get together for a FULL WEEK and have 150 (2006) attend. And when they discover we cook three meals a day for us to eat – they want to know ‘how?’. And then when I tell this has been ongoing for 67 years (1941 – 2007) with the exception of one year during World War II, they are further amazed.
I
lay pen to paper to record for our posterity ‘The Beginning’ of the
Porter Family Houseparty. I do this at this time because the “original” members
of the family are dwindling and we do not want to lose the history of the
beginning of the reunion.
Where
do we start in telling this story? With the first reunion?
To do so would ignore some important events. We start this story with the Mama
and Papa -- Preston
S. Porter and Mary Anne Bush Porter.
Mama
and Papa were married in 1898 and lived on a farm in White Oaks in
Papa
did farming and had a sawmill. He also met the ferry
and hauled the freight up from the river.
He’d pick up the mail for the Kelly area and also trapped in order to sell
the pelts.
We all went to school in Kelly. Troy went off to the Navy, Al went off to the Army and Papa died in 1928 due to Bright’s Disease; leaving Mamma to raise all us children. Times were hard for us – money was scarcer than hens’ teeth. Life was made even harder due to flooding which ruined the crops two years in a row.
When
I reached the 12th grade, I went to live with Aunt Bert in Clarkton
since the high school in Kelly was not accredited that year. After graduation,
I came back home, having no idea of going to college since there was no money.
Shortly
after returning home, Mr. Stroud came by trying to get people to attend his
beautician school in
A
few weeks later, another of the children left home by train for school in
After
3 weeks at school, Mama passed away. P.S. sent me the money to come home by
train. After the funeral, I decided to return to school – since it was already
paid for. When I returned, Ferrell said that I was an orphan – I said I wasn’t ! !
During
a date one night, Ferrell had the ferris wheel operator
stop us on the top of the wheel. There, under a full moon, Ferrell stole his
first kiss. I was so scared being on the top of the wheel, all I could do was
to ignore him – I was so scared.
Ferrell
was working at Tom McAnn shoe store. One night, he called and asked if he could
stop by and talk. It was after midnight when he finally got there. He took my
hand, gave me a ring, and asked if I would marry him. On July 24, 1935 we were
married at his boarding house.
Over
the next several years, we traveled to Kelly each summer, staying with Sis and
Roland. Ferrell was uncomfortable with this, because everyone would come to
Sis’, and he felt we were imposing on them. So, in early 1941, Ferrell asked
some people if they could come to
So,
in July 1941 we got together at
So
that is my story of “The Beginning” of the Porter Family Houseparty.
As
I lay my pen down, I issue to you all this request –
pick up the pen and add your chapter to The Porter Family Houseparty history
before if becomes lost in time.
Submitted
by
Mary
Bernice (Bunny) Porter Ard